In Memory of

I pray for the families that have been affected by the Ohio school shooting. Please tell your chidren you love them. We never know when it is our turn to go. So sad this is. May God Bless you all.

Thought of the day

Thought of the day: Want it more than you are afraid of it.

Time Well Spent...

Hello once again...Yes I have taken a couple of days off. However, I must tell you that I took the time off to spend it with my children. My kids have told me they understand that daddy is busy due to my work schedule. It touched my heart when I heard that the other day. That lead me to take a break and spend some time with them. It was well worth it I must say. So take the time to spend some time. Have a great day!

Thought of the day: A little time spent is a little love gained.

Thought of the day

Thought of the day: He didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him to do it.(clarence kelland)

You are appreciated!

This is just a reminder to all dads.. If you are involved in your childs life you are sppreciated. Even when you feel neglected know that you are needed.

Thought of the day: Dads are the foundation children's lives are built on. Are you a solid foundation?

Got to be there...

Of course that beautiful song that was sung by the Jackson 5 came to my mind as I was thinking about my children. My daughter and I were talking one day about her Volleyball game. She was telling me, "Dad you got to be there". That statement rings true today. As dads we GOT TO BE THERE. Our presence makes a world of difference even when we feel it doesn't. Men you've got to be there. Oh, let me point out that your time means more than the money you spend or send.

Thought of the day: One father is worth more than a hundred teachers

Thought of the day...

Thought of the day: Fathers,like mothers,are not born. Men grow into fathers and fathering is a very important stage in their development.

Thinking...

I will be the first to tell anyone that I have had my share of problems when it comes to parenting. I mean from dealing with the mom to the children. So I know what you the reader may be going through. My advice to you is to persevere .Press forward, for your child will thank you in the end. Remember its about the kids not about you. Do what is right by them and the rest will work itself out I promise.

Thought of the day: I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need of a father's protection (sigmund freud)

Believe in me...

The great coach Jim Valvano talked about how his father believed in him even when he didn't believe in himself. That was one of the most poignant statements I heard from someone about their parent. A parent's belief in their child is crucial to that child's growth. Let them know you have their back even when they make a mistake. Encourage them constantly. Most of all let them know you believe in them.

Thought of the day: My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me.  Jim Valvano

Life Is Short

As we think of the sudden and tragic death of Whitney Houston;be mindful that tomorrow isn't promised to us either. No one knows the time nor the hour. Not only tell your children you love them but tell everyone you love. Never miss an opportunity to share an uplifting and caring word.

Thought of the day: One day your here and the next day your gone...

How will your children remember you?

Do you ever think about what your children will say about you after you leave this earth? I believe if we thought of that more often we may do some things differently. How do you want to be remembered?

Thought of the day: It doesnt matter who you think you are to your children;it matters what they think you are to them.

Self Explanatory

I do not feel the need to give an explanation today. Read the thought of the day and make it a daily choice. Have a Great Day!

Thought of the day: The most important thing that a father can do for his children is to love their mother.

Speak Life (cont.)

Speaking life into your child's life is imperative. As you can see it's so necessary that I have dedicated another post to the subject. You can make or break your child's future with your words. You can build or destroy with your words. Remember, say to your children what you wish your parents would've said to you.

Thought of the day: Death and life lies on the tongue.

Speak Life

I remember the story in bible where God commanded the prophet to speak life into some dry bones, meaning the individual was dead. I encourage you to pour positive affirmations over your children daily. Speak life into their spirits constantly. Never let their soul run dry. Your words make a difference.

Thought of the day: Kind words cost nothing yet they are precious gems.

Thought of the day

I figured I would just get right to it today.

Thought of the day: Becareful how you treat your children for they are the ones who will pick your nursing home.

Super Dad

As I watch this wonderful Super Bowl I had the thought of hosting a Super Bowl for Super Dads. As this thought lingers I juggle back and forth thinking of what makes a Super Dad. Well I must admit that it didn't take much thought. A Super Dad is one who sacrifices and puts his children before himself. A Super Dad is one who goes to each game even though he is  tired from a long day. A Super Dad bakes brownies with his daughter. I believe you get the point. A Super Dad isn't crowned because he spends the most money. A Super Dad is crowned on the strength of his Super sacrifices, his Super dedication, his Super Love.

Thought of the day: Are you a Super Dad?

Super Bowl Weekend

Well the big game is less than 24hrs. away. Guess what, after the game its time to suit up for the real challenge-FATHERHood


Thought of the day:Play hard,live hard,LOVE HARDER 

It's the weekend baby!

Well my friends we have made it through another week. Congrats....To top it off it is Super Bowl weekend. What better way to end a rough week than to watch a MAN's game on a MAN's own time.(Sorry, I got excited.) Ok now back to the subject at hand, Fatherhood. Please make a special moment with your child this weekend. Watch the game with your son and tell him how you wish your favorite team was playing.(The Cowboys...just saying) Watch the game with your daughter and listen to her squeal as a player gets knocked into a new day. Or watch it with your child and lie about how good you use to be at football when you were young! Come on I know I'm not the only one that does that. Anyway,whatever you do this weekend make sure you enjoy your child. Be Safe!

Thought of the day: Time is precious and worth more than silver and gold.

Fear

Hello once again,
I am writing this post after having a long thinking session. I recently had a conversation with a gentleman about his fear of fatherhood. After our conversation I had an epiphany about the meaning of fear. One of the things I want you men and women to understand that fear is a trait that each of us has. Left unchecked it can block us from enjoying the fullness of life. So I leave you with the thought of the day hoping it will spark something deep within your spirit.

Thought of the day: Fear is nothing more than misunderstood emotions.